Hukuman Berat Membendung Gejala Buang Bayi

Kejam? Tidak berperikemanusiaan? Zalim? Tidak bertanggungjawab? Apakah perasaan anda bila melihat, mendengar, atau membaca kes-kes pembuangan bayi yang makin menjadi-jadi sekarang? Marah? Sedih? Atau hanya sekadar duduk dan menggeleng kepala tanpa ada apa-apa usaha untuk membetulkan keadaan? Dewasa ini kita sering dikejutkan dengan gejala-gejala pembuangan bayi yang disifatkan sebagai kejam dan tidak berperikemanusiaan.

Gejala buang bayi in adalah berpunca daripada si pelaku yang tidak menginginkan bayi tersebut akibat daripada keterlanjuran mereka dalam melakukan hubungan luar nikah dan kehadiran bayi tersebut hanya akan mengundang kejian dan tohmahan daripada masyarakat yang membuatkan si pelaku merasa tertekan dan mengambil jalan singkat dengan membuang bayi mereka tanpa perasaan simpati. Bayangkan, tubuh kecil si comel yang masih belum mengerti apa-apa dan mendambakan kasih sayang sepenuhnya daripada ibu dan bapa, terkulai layu tanpa nafas, dijumpai dalam tong sampah, dalam mangkuk tandas, dalam longkang, dalam semak, dalam tempat pembuangan najis, dicampak tanpa simpati, apa perasaan anda?

Sesekali saya tertanya-tanya apakah pelaku tidak mempunyai sebarang perasaan semasa membuang bayi mereka. Tidakkah mereka merasa berdosa melakukan perbuatan sedemikian? Di dalam rang Undang-undang Jenayah Malaysia menyatakan di mana sesiapa yang membuang bayi akan dijatuhi hukuman penjara selama 20 tahun. Namun adakah tempoh masa selama 20 tahun itu sudah cukup untuk menginsafkan pelaku dan juga orang ramai? Daripada sudut pemikiran saya sendiri saya rasa tempoh masa ini masih belum mencukupi kerana masih ada lagi kes-kes yang sama dilaporkan berulang lagi hari ini. Ini jelas membuktikan bahawa si pelaku masih tidak takut akan undang-undang dan terus melakukan jenayah terkutuk ini.

Pihak berkuasa haruslah mengkaji semula hukuman yang diperuntukkan kepada mereka yang membuang bayi ini. Sebagai contoh, hukuman berat seperti gantung dan sebat haruslah dilaksanakan sebagai usaha untuk membendung gejala ini daripada terus berleluasa dan terus menjadi duri dalam daging kepada semua pihak termasuk diri sendiri, keluarga, masyarakat, dan negara. Apabila terlaksananya hukuman gantung kepada mereka yang membuang bayi, pasti ramai yang takut dan akan berfikir dua kali untuk melakukan jenayah ini. Apabila kedua-dua pelaku (wanita dan lelaki) dijatuhi hukuman gantung sampai mati, ini pastinya akan menimbulkan perasaan lebih waspada dan bertanggungjawab di hati orang ramai. Ini sekaligus dapat mengurangkan gejala sosial yang berlaku dan dalam masa yang sama dapat mengelak pelaku melakukan hubungan tanpa nikah terlebih dahulu. Apabila gejala sosial tidak berlaku, maka kes-kes pembuangan bayi luar nikah juga tidak akan berlaku.



Seterusnya, dengan pelaksanaan hukuman sebat kepada pelaku akan menyebabkan orang ramai khususnya mereka yang suka melakukan hubungan tanpa nikah terlebih dahulu menjadi takut dan pastinya mereka tidak akan melakukan jenayah pembuangan bayi ini. Melalui hukuman sebat, pesalah akan dijatuhkan dengan bilangan sebat yang sepatutnya kerana membuang bayi dan ini akan menyebabkan sebilangan daripada urat-urat mereka akan putus dan akhirnya membuatkan badan mereka menjadi lemah dan kurang bermaya. Orang ramai yang takut untuk mengulangi kesalahan serupa pasti akan menghindari daripada melakukan jenayah ini dan dalam masa yang sama jenayah pembuangan bayi ini dapat dikekang daripada terus berlaku dan menjadi imej yang buruk kepada rakyat Malaysia.

Gejala pembuangan bayi sudah menjadi semakin serius di Negara ini. Di manakah letaknya tanggungjawab kita sebagai umat manusia? mengapakah masih ada segelintir manusia yang begitu rakus dengan nafsu dunia sehingga saanggup bertindak sebegitu rupa. Hukuman yang berat dan menyakitkan mungkin bakal menjadi guru kepada tindakan mereka, seterusnya membendung gejala membuang bayi di Malaysia.

The Way of a Businessman

“Nothing would seem perfect without pain and I am willing to work without pay because it is my responsibility,” says a businessman Che Mansor Bin Hamat. He should know. Nisha Enterprise, the company he formed by himself, was established in 1998, and known because of the quality of products made and continuously reminded by all his costumers, because giving them a great satisfaction. There still no any comment or bad complaint followed after bought any product from this company. At the same time, it shows this company’s achievement in giving the best for its costumers.

When the work becomes a passion, and where an in-come is a non-essential, then perhaps a different set of rules apply. Surrounded by a bad economy crumbling around him previous, a man who wanted to be known as Mr. M, managed to build a small company in a small town. Yet, the word turned around about the exceptional work being done by this new startup. “It was really a hard time at first when people who always underestimated my potential, and my single-minded in the type of work I wanted to do and suddenly I found myself working in a company of mine,” says Mr. M.

8 years on, the company has built up quite a resume. Nisha Enterprise now has become an established and well-known in Kelantan and now spread their wing to Terengganu. Nisha Enterprise has been successfully worked and produced better wood-made furniture to its customers. Yet then as now, Nisha Enterprise was never a company motivated by the desire to strike it rich. “We live in an era of perfection, where your creativity to design a product has to be louder and bigger than the competition,” he explains. “But I believe I have to challenge myself in order to always standing up with others.”

At Nisha Enterprise, you could describe the look of your own-future furniture, and they will make it for you. And you also being given the chance to return it if broken within three months. “But it is something wanted your patience most because sometimes it will be really hard to make a client say ‘yes’ when we walk them through the story and make them seriously believe in us,”. Yet he never quit and always believes in himself and will do whatever it takes to attract his customers buying his product.

With a family who always give him support, he continues doing a great job and his responsibilities for his wife and children. “Even though he is a busy man, but he still manages to spend his time with our kids and he such a great husband and also a wonderful father to our children,” says his charming wife, Zarina Binti Hussien. To his kids, he always gives them opportunities in developing their own interest and also being a supporter in everything that they do. And now, his oldest daughter is doing her degree in Interpersonal Communication in Mara University of Technology while the other four of his children (two boys and two girls) age between 17 to 8 years old still in their secondary and primary schools.

To be a man with a principle ‘Never Say No’, Mr. M, 45, used to be a taxi driver for about two years after married to his lovely wife, and I guess the luck was on his side when one day he heard that someone wanted to sell her lot and with his savings, he bought that lot and built his small company there. With faith and supports by the families he managed to work his company and success until now.

This man always ‘comes to earth’; he never forgot where he belongs. He always takes his children to visit their grandparents. He is a man who emphasis the relationship between families. “I don’t want to be a disobey son to my parents and always hoping for the same way for my children,” he says. “Besides, my family who always help me cope with my problems and thanks to my beloved wife because she always understand me,” add Mr. M. He also never takes his children for granted by neglecting them in this tough world.

Unlike other success businessmen (not all of the businessmen), who always accompany their costumers in playing golf, bowling, and others just the tricky way to get a tender of something, Mr. M differently when he eager to have some quality time with his own family by taking them for a vacation when he’s not working. He often to make his children happy and that makes their relationship getting closer day by day. “My job is number 1, but that doesn’t mean my responsibilities to my family goes to number 2,” explains him briefly.

And for the more additional information, his personal interest is cycling. He cycles in the evening with his team and sometimes with his own family. His passion in cycling has made him very emphasis about taking care of our own health. “He is the one who work and live well with cycling goes to be his way to exercise.” Says Mr. Zulkifli, 23, a member of Eagle Cycling Club which organized by Mr. M as the president.

Today, he is called a successful businessman as he managed to build a company by his own. With this growth and obvious success has come a responsibility that Mr. M will do his best until the end. “I’m not doing this for my own desires, but this is actually for my children,” he says with loves showed in his eyes. Commercial success is not something Mr. M needs to be too concerned about, for the moment at least. The real challenge, says Mr. M, is turning people away. “It’s never nice saying no. It’s not good for business. But it’s all about our willing in doing something. That’s the challenge.” He added that “It’s always a perpetual struggle because you work really hard on something that never really ends. You are never really happy with the end result. But we have to terms with that.”

People are acquainted with the star, the multi-faceted actor, but here I would like to tell that I am really impressed with Mr. M who actually stands for my father as well. He is the person who always cares and concern about his family needs than his own. I am really thankful to have a father like him and he is a superhero to me and my siblings. You can choose your friend but not your family. And my father will always be a hero in my small heart.


my idol with his wife..

A Fashion Step...

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Profile of The Company..

Ariani is an exclusive boutique of scarf and shawl fully belongs to Jakel, the exclusive depository in Malaysia. Ariani is born on April 2008 which first operates at No. 127 Jln Bunus Off Jalan Masjid India Kuala Lumpur (in front of Jakel Kuala Lumpur).
Now, Ariani has open eight branches with two in Jln Bunus, Johor Bahru (beside Jakel JB), Kota Damansara (The Strand) Bandar Baru Bangi, Melaka, Kuantan and Kelantan. in a short time, Ariani will breadth it's wing to Bangsar, Shah Alam, Wangsa Maju and Ariani Exclusive at City Garden Hotel.

Mission and Vision..

Ariani is hoping to be no.1 in every heart of its costumers.
-to give the best services to the costumers.
-the quality of the fabrics, design and sewed scarf will be guaranteed and can attract the costumers.
-to make Ariani as the only supplier and be the center for the exclusive scarf and shawl with the new and modern shape and design.
-to give the inspiration to all women especially Muslim who really care to always look beautiful and stylish.

Besides, Ariani is hoping to be the exponent to the world of fashion and will always provide the new and exclusive scarf and shawl.

Advice Services and Image Consultant..

Ariani provides advices for the costumers who want some opinion regarding choosing the right scarf. Beside that, the instruction and technique to wear the scarf will be given freely to the costumers.

The Phenomenon of Ariani..

Ariani comes in various shape and embroidery. Some of them are designed in an exclusive embroidery sewed which for the set of masterpiece, Ariani also designed with pasted-embroidery doily and decorated with beads and the real Swarovski diamonds. Fabric of Ariani is vary from Lycra, Thai Silk, Raw Silk an etc. Ariani also provide scarf and sequin that can be wear with the inner scarf (new design). it looks like shawl, suitable for those who want to be more elegant in grooming.

Product of Ariani also varies in colors and also sizes. We can find the scarf and shawl in different colors and different sizes. Although they only provide 100 scarfs in 100 colors, but it is valued by its costumers because of it quality and beauty. For those who really care of their "aurat", don't worry because Ariani collection can be found in every size and can cover your chest and neck perfectly.

From my own experience, scarf from Ariani is easy to wear. What I mean is, we don't need to push our mind to think what style should we use to wear our scarf for the day. Ariani just need us to iron it and wear it just like that. No more worries on how we look and do our scarf shape our face exactly? Just put it on and feel free to be envied by others. Furthermore, we are saving our precious time just worrying what style should we use anymore. Be a person who always punctual to your work place and even classes.

Ariani also gives a modern and stylish perception towards the users. Wear Ariani and you will be appreciate by others. The others will look at you and hoping to be just like you, modern and stylish. Live in this urban society makes you want to be the no.1 and envied by your friends and also enemies. Let be the girl next door with a modern and stylish way. Walk with confidence and it is suitable to wear in every occasion such as wedding, shopping, any type of ceremony, and even to a work place.

When I wear Ariani's scarf, i feel very comfortable. I can walk with confidence. No more uncomfortable feelings of the way I look, how people picture me and do my scarf still in a good shape. Nowadays, a lot of other companies also do the same business in scarf and shawl, but all of them still can't challenge Ariani. I used to try wearing a scarf from other company, but I feel like I was strangled by something. I felt so uneasy and feel like just just throw it away. When I wear Ariani, it is different, the feeling of comfortable is around me and I am happy to have them (Ariani scarfs and shawls) as my collection.


Although a scarf from Ariani can cost you a lot, yet I can guarantee it's worth every penny you spend. Ask yourself, do you care for the cost or do you care for all the advantages listed? I would prefer the quality of the product rather than the price. I will always trust Ariani for giving me a better look and always ready for all the possibilities.

For all my followers who interested in Ariani, please go to the website www.ariani.my for further information. Thanks to Ariani for the information and pictures. If a friend ask me for a new scarf, I would advise her to buy a scarf from Ariani.

CONQUER THE WORLD WITH ARIANI..

my memoirs..

First of all, I would like to greet anyone who reading this biography of mine. I am really excited about making this assignment. I hope u will enjoy yourself reading this because this is my first time introduce myself to public this way. So, check it out…

Okay, my full name is Nur Maisyarah Binti Che Mansor and my nick name would be Sara. But I don’t really mind what people call me because I appreciate their thoughts about me. I have a friend; he has been my best friend since we were twelve years old. He used to call me ‘miss marble eyes’ but if you ask me “why he called you that way?” and I will say “I don’t really know why”… but deep inside I like that name because to me it is very unique and only the special one would be given that really special name. Thanks my friend. I will never forget our sweet memories although we are far away separated by countries.

I was born on 13th of May in the year 1989. In Western, my zodiac would be Taurus and it is sign of love, bravery, responsible but has a stone heart. But I always tried to calm down myself when I get angry because I would quickly lose my temper. But I hope u will not be afraid to be my friend, and I will assure you will have a great time because I could be loving and funny too. Believe me, I really mean it.



I was born in Kelantan. I am thankful to be Kelantanese because this place is very peaceful and full of calmness. There are so many interesting places to visit here. Plus, this country is rich with its own culture. You will be able to see the unique and dazzling wayang kulit, get to see how the local play gasing and wau bulan. And here we also have the small industry of batik and one would enjoy seeing how a plain canvas would be a beautiful cloth to wear. You will never regret if you come for visit to Kelantan and I am assure you will amaze your family and even yourself too of course.


Well, about my family I have kind-hearted dad named Che Mansor Bin Hamat and a caring mom named Zarina Binti Hussien. My dad works as a small businessman and my mom is a full-timed housewife. I am the oldest among my two brothers and two sisters. Therefore, I am very responsible about my family future time. I have to finish my study and work really hard because I need to show a good example to my siblings and of course I want to make my parents really proud of me. I just don’t want to be a useless daughter. I really hope so…


This blog is actually for my assignment in Thinking and Writing Strategies subject. The title of the blog is ‘mind talk’ because I want to express all my thoughts on certain information in a way that people can read, think and believe what is right and what is wrong. So for all the readers please look forward to read again next week. I guess that’s all from me now. I am looking forward to write again. To all my friends, please leave a comment when you read this. Thank you….